Seemingly going to be,
"whosoever come, he is the one".
Aw! It should not be like that, dude!
One of the twentieth-dilemmas is about marriage. It is not a secret anymore.
When you are a girl, you are twenty-five and not married yet, everyone will ask you this question so often,
"Hey Girl, what are you waiting for? You are not getting younger. It is time to settle down. Don't be so lounge"
Yes, I know.
Age is really a matter for a grown woman.
You don't even realize if time flies by.
It feels like you are the 20-years-old you without any changes.
Until you realize, days have been changes, and differences is real.
But well,
Marriage is not a racing anyway.
It is not about I don't want to marry or I should have decide my picking since all of my friend are settled down already.
Marriage is a complicated thing.
it is a beginning, not an ending of a story.
We need to prepare so many things, most of them, we need to prepare ourselves for not living alone anymore, for fixing the problems we may face in the future, for understanding the differences we may suffer.
The perfectionist side of my self says,
"I want to be like Sayyidah Khadijah whom became home from Rasulullah. Loved and being loved at once. Though and patient. Strong and admirable."
But to be like her needs a long journey.
I finally re-realize,
Everything is just happened because it meant to be.
See.
"whosoever come, he is the one".
Aw! It should not be like that, dude!
One of the twentieth-dilemmas is about marriage. It is not a secret anymore.
When you are a girl, you are twenty-five and not married yet, everyone will ask you this question so often,
"Hey Girl, what are you waiting for? You are not getting younger. It is time to settle down. Don't be so lounge"
Yes, I know.
Age is really a matter for a grown woman.
You don't even realize if time flies by.
It feels like you are the 20-years-old you without any changes.
Until you realize, days have been changes, and differences is real.
But well,
Marriage is not a racing anyway.
It is not about I don't want to marry or I should have decide my picking since all of my friend are settled down already.
Marriage is a complicated thing.
it is a beginning, not an ending of a story.
We need to prepare so many things, most of them, we need to prepare ourselves for not living alone anymore, for fixing the problems we may face in the future, for understanding the differences we may suffer.
The perfectionist side of my self says,
"I want to be like Sayyidah Khadijah whom became home from Rasulullah. Loved and being loved at once. Though and patient. Strong and admirable."
But to be like her needs a long journey.
I finally re-realize,
Everything is just happened because it meant to be.
See.
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